Someone who has married know that planning a wedding is really a hard job. There are a lot of details you have to be more careful. Or you will destroy your wedding. Your wedding should be one of the happiest day of your life and in order to make it perfect, you have to know some do’s and don't’s.
Do be yourself. This is your wedding not your friends and families. You can hear some advices from them. But you can not just do what they require. If you and your fiance want to have a special wedding, no wedding dress, no party, no big dinner and just want to travel be with you, just do that. You have the right to decide what type of wedding you want. If your families and friends really love you, they can understand that and encourage you to do that.
Do Create Your Timeline. No matter what type of wedding you choose, you have to create your timeline carefully, especially when you want to hold a ceremony. If you do not know how to make it and do not how much time you will need for each item, you can find some wedding profesors to do this for you. They can make it organized and there everything would go well.
Don’t invite people you or your fiance don’t want there. This point is very important. Such people refer to your ex-boyfriend or your fiance ex-girfriend. I don’t mean that every one should do like this. If your ex-boyfriend or your fiance ex-girfriend are still friends with you and they do not do something hurting you before, why not? But you know there is often happens that your break-up is often a sad story and you hurt very much. On this occasion, to invite them just make you remenber the sad past. Why do this. And the important point is that your fiance would care about it just as you care your fiance inviting his ex girlfriend. All in all, do not do something that would do bad to your mood.
Don't put yourself into debt by throwing a lavish wedding. It's not worth it. If you just don't have the budget for it, have a small party you both will love. Times are changing and having a big, lavish wedding is far from the norm. Debt from your wedding is only going to cause marital tension in the long run. In the end, all that matters is that your close friends and family are present and you have a memorable evening. They can understand that and will be also happy. Your should make your wedding perfect without any annoyance.
There are a lot of do’s and don't;s, but I just point the most important ones. Actually, you just remenber what would make you happy. That is do’s. What would make you sad. That is don't’s. Do not let your wedding with regrets.